Thursday, October 28, 2010

Finally Telling Someone You Have Feelings For Them

Now a days, many people are afraid to tell that "special someone" that their digging them, but I dont blame them, rejection can some times be a BITCH. When telling someone you have a crush on them, there's a 50% chance they will say "Oh really, I was feeling the same way" where as there is another 50% chance that they will say " I'm sorry, but I just dont feel the same". Getting that reply can sometimes devistate you because in your mind you feel as though is not fair. I believe thats its harder to tell your best friend that you like them than it is a stranger. My reasons behind this is because with a stranger, you can be like " I have a crush on you" and if you happen to face rejection, most likely you will move on to the next and think nothing else about it. Whereas with your best friend, its already difficult to tell them and then on top of that if you face rejection, there's probably a 20% chance that your friendship will slowly drift apart. This doesn't happen very often as long as you act like it didn't phase you. Most people are afraid to tell because they feel as though it might hurt the chances of them staying friends. I had a situation similar to this, but it didn't affect our friendship at all, it actually brought us closer in my opinion. So if you have feelings for someone don't hide them, push to what you want. Until next time, this has been #2crucial with the #2crucialforum! Thanks for reading! #Dueces!

Wednesday, October 27, 2010

Is it too soon to have sex on the first date?

Many people ask "Is it okay if I have sex on the first date?" I figure this, Are you ready to have sex on the first date? Most people feel as though if they have sex on the first date, they will be listed as stereotypes such as a whore or slut. I mean ignore it, I'm pretty sure the people that are calling you that have indeed done it themselves. From my point of view, I feel as though its certain times when its okay to have sex on the first day. For example, say you just met this person at the club like a couple of hours ago and you take them back home with you and lay it down. #STOP that's when its not okay! Now if you met this person at the club a few days ago, and you guys have been talking for a couple of days and your digging their vibe and liking their style, its exceptional only if you can see yourself being with them after the situation. Myself personal have never had sex on the first date, I find it to be scandalised. I dont want to hit it and quit it, but that doesn't mean I'm against it. If you do decide to have sex on the first date, dont bring out your best sex moves lol! I mean what will they have left to imagine if you done showed all the moves in the bed lol! Come on now! This has been #2crucial and I'm out!

Fake Tweeters (Lives)

Recently I have noticed on the popular website twitter.com that many of their users have started these fake #imaginary life stories. Things such as "Living The Rich Life Is So Fab" but yet, your struggling and getting hit by the recession harder than most of us. I see it as, why do you have to lie about your life? Its truly unessecarry and quite frankly very childish. Most people start trying to struggle to be including in there #twitterlives. I see it as, no one knows what you are doing unless you tweet it. Correct? Until next time, this has been the #2crucialforum thanks for reading!


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